Blog for Better Living
The Power of Validation
By: Rochelle Perper, Ph.D. | August 9, 2024
We all want to feel heard, accepted, valued, and even loved. When we validate someone, we are essentially giving them this experience. Life can be confusing and difficult for all of us, but when we are genuinely validated, we feel acknowledged and reassured that we are not alone. Life seems more manageable, and we become […]
Read MoreAnger, Anxiety, Depression, Parenting, Relationships, Therapy, Trauma
The Importance of Protein for Mental Health
By: Jen McWaters, Psy.D. | August 2, 2024
We all know that protein plays an important part in our physical health. It may be surprising to know that protein also plays a crucial role in our emotional health. In fact, a diet with sufficient protein improves emotional wellbeing, and enhances brain function, such as learning, memory and problem-solving. This article will explore what […]
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Understanding, and Overcoming Perfectionism
By: Niyatee Sukumaran, Ph.D. | July 26, 2024
Some of us wear the label “perfectionist” as a badge of honor. It can be considered a positive quality, showing that we are and pay close attention to detail. What isn’t as well understood is that perfectionism can do more harm than good. It can damage our self-esteem and confidence, put a strain on our […]
Read MoreAnxiety, Depression, Personal Improvement, Relationships, Stress
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What Are Your Emotions Trying To Tell You?
By: Shanni Tal, Psy.D. | July 19, 2024
Emotions are a natural part of being human, yet they are often perplexing, can be unpredictable and difficult to understand. If you grew up in a household that didn’t acknowledge a range of emotions, it may be hard for you to identify, and express your feelings. This can lead to feeling disconnected, problems with your […]
Read MoreAnger, Anxiety, Depression, Personal Improvement, Relationships
Why Is Leaving So Hard?
By: Natalie Rice-Thorp, Ph.D. | July 5, 2024
How To Feel at Peace With Your Decision During a recent chat with a Swiftie about the wisdom in Taylor Swift’s song, “It’s Time To Go,” I started thinking about what it’s like to leave something that no longer serves you. Whether it’s a romantic relationship, a friendship, a job, or something else, I […]
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Do You Shy Away From Your Feelings?
By: Kristen Lipari, Ph.D. | June 28, 2024
How To Understand Your Emotional Cues As a psychologist who treats strong and resilient women, I often hear my clients say that they try their hardest not to cry. They push their feelings away in hopes of avoiding the pain. Emotional repression is a common defense mechanism, especially if you live, or grew up […]
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Coping With Perfectionism Using RAIN
By: Niyatee Sukumaran, Ph.D. | June 21, 2024
As a psychologist, I’ve talked with many clients who are trapped in an endless cycle of not feeling “good enough” because they set excessively high standards for themselves. Although there is absolutely nothing wrong with striving for excellence, the tendency to aim for flawlessness negatively impacts a person’s life. This tendency is referred to as […]
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I’m an Accomplice
By: Michael Toohey, Psy.D. | June 7, 2024
Long before I was a psychologist, I was a volunteer and worked with all sorts of queer people. I remember volunteering in Hawaii almost 30 years ago, and one of the local volunteers was a trans woman. She was in the process of transitioning, and to get the “approval” of a psychiatrist to fully transition, […]
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Getting the Love You Want Workshop: What We Learned as a Couple
By: Gregory E. Koch, Psy.D. | May 31, 2024
My husband, José, and I are completing professional training to facilitate the Imago-based ‘Getting the Love You Want’ Couples Workshop. This educational program is an immersive two-and-a-half-day experience on enhancing communication and building intimacy. We are excited to announce that the first workshop will be offered at Therapy Changes in June 2024! In the lead-up […]
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