Blog for Better Living

Thought Crimes: Why Your Thoughts Don’t Define You

By: Michael Toohey, Psy.D. | December 6, 2024

Have you even beaten yourself up, judged yourself, or felt ashamed for having a thought that might upset others if you shared it with them? Does thinking poorly about someone make you a bad person? Swiss psychiatrist Carl Jung was among the first to grapple with these concepts, which are referred to as “thought crimes.” […]

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Anxiety, Depression, Personal Improvement, Stress

Cultivating Calm in Crisis

By: Ashley Malooly, Ph.D. | November 22, 2024

As much as we hope to avoid them, at some point or another, we are all inevitably affected by crises in our lives. For example, an unexpected bill shows up, a pet or a child falls ill, your flight gets canceled, you need to have a high-stakes conversation with a loved one. All these situations […]

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Personal Improvement, Relationships, Stress

Overcoming Midlife Malaise: Simple Strategies for Renewal

By: Demet Çek, Ph.D. | November 1, 2024

What is my purpose? How can I make the most of the time I have left? Is this all there is to life? If you’ve been pondering these questions, you may be experiencing midlife malaise. While having a “midlife crisis” is often stereotyped by getting a divorce, splurging on an expensive sports car, and pursuing […]

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Anxiety, Depression, Personal Improvement, Relationships, Stress

Anxious Attachment Style Explained

By: Shanni Tal, Psy.D. | October 18, 2024

Insights for Healthier Relationships   We all know that relationships matter, but what makes them so important? Relationships are essential to our survival as humans. Deeply rooted in our evolutionary history, they offer safety, shared resources and cooperative parenting, thus enhancing our chances of making it through challenging times. In today’s world, relationships continue to […]

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Anxiety, Personal Improvement, Relationships

Navigating Relationship Pressures

By: Gregory E. Koch, Psy.D. | October 11, 2024

How Imago Relationship Therapy Empowers LGBTQ+ and Diverse Couples   As a psychologist and certified Imago Relationship Therapist, I’ve dedicated my career to helping individuals and couples navigate the complexities of love and partnership. But my journey isn’t just professional—it’s also deeply personal. My husband, José, and I are not only a gay couple, we […]

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LGBTQ+, Personal Improvement, Relationships

Embracing Imperfection

By: Natalie Rice-Thorp, Ph.D. | September 13, 2024

Rethinking the Quest for the Perfect Conversation   Imagine gliding effortlessly through an anxiety-free conversation where you can clearly and calmly focus on what others are saying and be ready with a perfectly timed funny/empathetic/intelligent response. You feel confident! You look amazing! Sounds great, right…but is it possible? While you might imagine this kind of […]

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Anxiety, Personal Improvement, Relationships

Navigating Mental Health Advice

By: Kamaljit "Sonya" Virdi, Ph.D. | August 23, 2024

How to Identify What Works and What Doesn’t   Mental health has become a prominent and widely discussed topic since the pandemic, and there is currently more information on the subject than ever before. This change has benefits like de-stigmatizing mental illness and helping people feel more comfortable accessing services. However, the sheer amount of […]

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Anxiety, Depression, Personal Improvement, Stress, Therapy

Self-Care Made Simple With GRAPES

By: Ashley Malooly, Ph.D. | August 16, 2024

Self-neglect and self-loathing are out, and self-care is in! Everyone from celebrities to doctors, morning shows, and even business publications promote the need for improved self-care practices. It’s no surprise that giving yourself some personal time helps lessen stress. Research shows that practicing self-care daily has a profound effect on both our mental and physical […]

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Depression, Personal Improvement, Sleep/Relaxation, Stress

The Importance of Protein for Mental Health

By: Jen McWaters, Psy.D. | August 2, 2024

We all know that protein plays an important part in our physical health. It may be surprising to know that protein also plays a crucial role in our emotional health. In fact, a diet with sufficient protein improves emotional wellbeing, and enhances brain function, such as learning, memory and problem-solving. This article will explore what […]

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Anxiety, Depression, Personal Improvement, Stress