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Navigating Relationship Pressures
By: Gregory E. Koch, Psy.D. | October 11, 2024
How Imago Relationship Therapy Empowers LGBTQ+ and Diverse Couples As a psychologist and certified Imago Relationship Therapist, I’ve dedicated my career to helping individuals and couples navigate the complexities of love and partnership. But my journey isn’t just professional—it’s also deeply personal. My husband, José, and I are not only a gay couple, we […]
Read MoreGetting the Love You Want Workshop: What We Learned as a Couple
By: Gregory E. Koch, Psy.D. | May 31, 2024
My husband, José, and I are completing professional training to facilitate the Imago-based ‘Getting the Love You Want’ Couples Workshop. This educational program is an immersive two-and-a-half-day experience on enhancing communication and building intimacy. We are excited to announce that the first workshop will be offered at Therapy Changes in June 2024! In the lead-up […]
Read MoreThe Absolutely Essential Nature of Conflict in Romantic Relationships
By: Gregory E. Koch, Psy.D. | October 20, 2023
Many of us believe that “good relationships” don’t have conflict. Contrary to this commonly held belief, conflict is absolutely essential in romantic relationships! Conflict in a relationship doesn’t imply failure or dysfunction, but rather signifies the depth and authenticity of the connection. In this article, I explain the important role that conflict serves in romantic […]
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Navigating Anti-LGBTQ+ Religions
By: Gregory E. Koch, Psy.D. | July 21, 2023
Empowering Strategies for Resilience and Growth In today’s diverse society, it is disheartening to acknowledge that certain religious beliefs continue to marginalize and discriminate against the LGBTQ+ community. Anti-gay religions have a harmful impact on the lives and relationships of gay individuals, often causing emotional distress and feelings of isolation. This article will highlight […]
Read MoreComing Out as Queer on Your Terms
By: Gregory E. Koch, Psy.D. | December 30, 2022
This article is inspired by friends and clients who recently shared with me about their coming out journey. In my article Relationship Tips for Gay Men…and anyone else smart enough to read this article, I suggest that gay men “celebrate their gay” by being themself in as many spaces as possible. This article will expand […]
Read MoreRelationship Tips for Gay Men
By: Gregory E. Koch, Psy.D. | July 1, 2022
…and anyone smart enough to read this article In 2014, I attempted my first 5-day backpacking trip. It was one of the hardest things I’ve ever done. Sir Edmund Hillary, the first mountaineer to summit Mt. Everest without supplemental oxygen, once said, “It is not the mountains we conquer but ourselves.” I remember feeling […]
Read MoreReinvigorating Sexual Passion and Desire in a Committed Relationship
By: Gregory E. Koch, Psy.D. | October 29, 2021
In the early days of a relationship, sex can seem fun, exciting, and something to look forward to for many couples. Of course, every couple is different. For many, even those still profoundly in love, sexual passion and behaviors can change throughout a long-term relationship. Couples who maintain a higher level of passion in a […]
Read MoreTherapy Changes Welcomes Dr. Gregory Koch
By: Gregory E. Koch, Psy.D. | December 26, 2020
In our era of “snapshot appearances” and social media, being yourself can be hard. It isn’t easy to keep up appearances, and this takes a toll on our self-esteem and self-identity. That is why having a place where you can be yourself, let your guard down, be vulnerable, and be seen is so important. Holding […]
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